family tribute
Standing in the Gap
Dear Uncle John,
Thank you—for standing in the gap.
Long before we knew how much we’d need someone like you, you were already showing us what love, presence, and protection look like. You weren’t flashy or loud. You didn’t try to be the center of attention. But somehow, in every moment that mattered, you were right there.
You stood in the gap for your family—not just with words, but with loyalty, strength, and quiet support. You stood beside us when we needed a hand, a shoulder, or simply someone who understood. You didn’t have to be asked. You just did it. That’s love in its purest form.
You stood in the gap for your family. Your actions told us what words couldn’t: "You matter to me." You gave your time freely. You gave your heart completely. You filled in where others may have left space—and you did it all without ever seeking credit.
You were affectionately known as our gentle giant—and the name fits.
Not just because of your stature, but because of the grace in your presence.
Your gentleness was your power.
Your consistency was your ministry.
Your presence was our peace.
You were just a man…
But you were a man who showed up, stood tall, and loved well.
You stood in the gap, Uncle John—and we felt it.
We still feel it now.
In every role he played—whether brother, uncle, friend, or quiet supporter—Uncle John Powell left an imprint on the hearts of those he loved. His life was a testament to the fact that love does not have to be loud to be powerful. His quiet strength, enduring faith, and deep love for his family will live on in the memories of those he touched. His legacy will be carried on not just in the words we speak, but in the way we live, love, and support one another—just as he did for us.
And though your earthly assignment has ended, we believe that God—who watched you give of yourself so quietly and so completely—has now called you to rest. We imagine Him saying:
“Well done, John. You stood in the gap when others would not.
You held your family together with love and humility.
Now rest. Your reward is with Me.”
We miss you. We thank you. We love you.
And we promise to carry what you taught us—faithfulness, steadiness, quiet strength, and love without limits.
Rest well, our gentle giant.
You’ve stood long enough.
Now God is standing for you.
With all our love,
Your Family
On the day John Powell married Bernetta, I met him for the first time but instead of the customary Congratulations others extended to them, I proceeded with a long list of questions about his background, his lineage, financial portfolio, his intentions as a husband, etc.
He answered all my inquiries, politely that day. And from that day forward, I jokingly became known as "Motor-mouth" , his other wife. We shared many laughs and hearty exchanges over the years, as he and Bernetta did indeed share a very loving and prosperous marriage, just as he had promised!!
Carolyn R Scribner
Personal Reflection for Uncle John (Johnny) Powell:
"Just a Man—But Always There"
When I think about my Uncle John (Johnny) Powell, I don’t just think about a man—I think about a constant. A presence. A quiet strength. A steady hand.
He was just a man. Not a perfect man. Not a loud man. But a man who loved deeply and gave freely—especially to those closest to him. And if you were family, you knew exactly what that meant.
Uncle John had a heart that leaned toward service. He was supportive without being asked, helpful without hesitation. Whether it was one of his sisters or brothers needing a hand, or one of us nieces or nephews needing a little guidance, or just someone to lean on—John was there. Without haste. Without question. Without fanfare.
He didn’t look for applause, but his actions always spoke louder than words.
He didn’t give speeches, but his loyalty preached a quiet sermon of love, responsibility, and care.
One niece lovingly referred to Uncle John (Johnny) Powell as a "gentle giant," and if you knew him, you understood why. He carried a quiet strength and a kind heart. He didn’t need to raise his voice to be heard. His love was expressed in actions, in presence, in faithfulness.
He stood strong for his sisters and gave of himself without hesitation to his nieces and nephews. Whether combing hair before school or showing up after the bell, his support was consistent and comforting. He was just a man, but a man who made a lifelong impact.
Another niece remembers him combing her hair before school—a simple moment, but one that carried love, tenderness, and consistency. And when school let out, he was there to pick her up, again and again. That’s the kind of man he was. The kind you could count on. The kind who made you feel protected, seen, and loved—even in the smallest gestures.
He stood beside his sister—not just as a brother, but as a pillar in her life. He didn’t just share her blood; he shared her burdens. When things were heavy, he helped carry the weight—with strength, with calm, with love.
And to us—his nieces and nephews—he was more than an uncle. He was like a second father, a guardian, a friend. He made space for us, even when life didn’t make it easy. He was present. And in this world, presence is priceless.
John Powell may not have had titles or trophies, but his life was marked by something far greater: faithfulness.
Faithfulness to his family.
Faithfulness to his quiet role.
Faithfulness to the people he loved.
We may not have always known the full story of his life, but we felt his love in real time—in the ways he showed up, again and again, with no need for praise. That’s the kind of legacy that lingers long after a man is gone.
And though we feel his absence today, we hold on to the truth that he is not lost to us—he’s gone home. Home to peace. Home to rest. Home to God.
So let us remember John not just with sadness, but with gratitude.
Let us honor him—not with tears alone, but with actions that echo the way he lived.
Let’s show up for one another. Let’s support one another—without haste, just like he did.
Because John Powell was just a man.
But he was our man.
Our uncle. Our brother. Our friend.
And the love he gave us—quietly, faithfully, and consistently—will remain with us always.
We will carry your legacy.
We will remember your example.
And we will honor your life by showing up for each other the way you always did.
You were just a man…
But you were our man.
And we are better because we knew you, loved you, and were loved by you.
Rest well, Uncle John (Johnny). {Tank Head}
With all our love,
Your Sister Mary, Nieces, and Nephews
The Godfather
Not long after I had moved to Maryland from Arkansas, I was introduced to Mr. Powell and Bernetta through one of my best friends, Kia. Kia had grown up knowing Bernetta, and since I was pregnant and didn’t have any family in the area, she insisted that I meet them…and they became my family. When my daughter, Olivia, was born, Mr. Powell insisted on being her DC Grandfather and in calling her his grandbaby, he spoiled and supported her as if she was his own blood. If we were visiting (which was relatively frequently when we lived in Maryland), and she was hungry, he would get her something to eat fussing that “Y’all aint feeding my grandbaby!” And don’t let it be a Sunday when he has fried some chicken…! She would eat that up! John Powell could fry some CHICKEN!!! LOL!
One of the greatest displays of his love and support of his “grandbaby” was when she was moving up from kindergarten to first grade: he surprised us and showed up to the school for the ceremony (pictured). We lived in Maryland, so that meant that he had to battle the DC traffic to come to her school in the middle of the day. That was very special for me. The sacrifice… the love…
When I answered my call into ordained ministry, he and Bernetta crossed the border from DC into Maryland (this really was a BIG DEAL) to hear me preach my trial sermon. I don’t know if he ever knew how much that meant to me. I had been working so hard to become licensed to practice law in Maryland, only to realize that the call was to become a licensed ordained minister. He was so supportive of every effort. Whether pursuing licensure in the Maryland bar, or into ordained ministry, Mr. Powell was always encouraging me, and telling me that between him and Bernetta, they were going to find me some work… John Powell–ever looking to connect you with someone…always networking. Always supported my dreams.
After the sermon, he shared his takeaway from my sermon: “Faith without works is dead.” That wasn’t what I was going for, but the Word of God isn’t mine–it’s God’s, and if that is what he heard, then that’s all that matters. When I left to enroll in seminary, he didn’t worry about me, but he did tell me to take care of his grandbaby!
I have more memories that I could share about Mr. Powell. He really was my godfather, and maybe even my “bonus” father… and my daughter was his “grandbaby”…and I loved him very much and will miss him dearly…
Love,
Yedea and your 18 y/o grandbaby, Olivia
Tribute by Scott Begab
I still vividly recall the day I met John Powell. I was visiting a mortgage broker company to provide a brief seminar about my real estate appraisal services, to answer questions, and to advise a room full of loan officers on how I could provide superior service to my many competitors.
There were between 20 and 30 loan officers, seated in a circle, and I was standing on the edge of the circle. I opened up the session for questions, and an authoritative voice spoke out with a more intelligent question than I normally anticipated. I looked to my left, and the face of the voice was concealed by the 4 gentlemen seated between us. The head of the voice leaned way forward so I could see his face.
Then and there, I knew I had found an excellent customer, but I could never have expected that I was, in that moment, meeting my "brother from another mother." And it took no time at all for me to realize I had found a lifelong friend, truly among the dearest and most special people I have ever known. Once, I called John and said I needed a character witness for an administrative hearing. John said, "What time and where?" And then he fulfilled.
John and I had total trust in each other. I cannot recall a single disagreement between us, but if there were any, we knew with certainty our friendship would always overrule them. I always trusted John's advice and his steady hand, and one could never even hope for a better friend. If I offered any professional opinion within my profession, it didn't matter if John was hearing a favorable or unfavorable opinion from me - He would simply say, "Well, then, that's it." And that WAS it. Always.
John could be a friend, a father, and a brother - all at once. I once read a book entitled "Man of Steel and Velvet." That says it all. John was brilliant and quick-witted, self-deprecating and funny - we liked that about each other - and he only judged if something unrighteous occurred. I don't think anyone who knew him would deny he was a "Man of Steel," but if you had never
experienced the "Velvet" side of John Powell, then you would have missed a LOT.
We loved each other. And it was earned.
Today, we grieve. But in the Kingdom -- We will rejoice.
Purpose and Heart
Though I met John only in the later years of his life, the impact of his passion and spirit was profound. Introduced through mutual associates, I came to admire not only his sharp mind—still calculating ARVs and outlining development visions—but also the deep heart he and his beloved wife Bernetta poured into his dreams for Washington, DC. His vision for creating housing opportunities remained strong. Few people carry such clear purpose and love for their craft. It was truly a joy and honor to have known him, even briefly.
Cheryl Smiler “Smiley”

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